Grammy’s house
Denny and I are going to go see my grandparents (Grammy and Pop-Pop) at their house in Springville (near Cedar Rapids) this evening. We have some spare zucchini bread (and how) to share, plus my parents are going to be there anyway. It’s good for Grammy to have some company, since Pop-Pop had a stroke and isn’t a very good conversationalist. I hope she enjoys the visit.
As I was writing the title for this post, I remembered something from when I was a little kid. Every summer, my cousins and I would spend some time at what we called “Cousins’ Week,” which Grammy hosted. We always had so much fun, and my cousins are still some of my favorite people because of it. We’d have wienie roasts at Pop-Pop’s farm, we’d rehearse a show to present to our parents when they came to pick us up, we’d go see miniature horses, and we’d flirt with the dashing and exotic Springville boys.
I don’t remember what year it was, but one summer I wanted to write “Go to Grammy’s house” on my calendar. I was still new to punctuation and pluralization, and I couldn’t remember how the y vs. ie and apostrophe situations were supposed to work. Rather than risk inaccuracy, I wrote “Go to the Grammy house” on the appropriate date. I don’t even know why I remember that so clearly, but it was still my first instinct to write “Denny and I are going to the Grammy house.”
It sounds like a place music awards are stored. It’s not, though. It’s just a regular house.
I remember as a kid, we cousins (all 13 of us) would gather at my grandmother’s house and she’d host us all for a weekend, the parents giving her looks like she was completely and totally off her rocker, but shrugging their shoulders and leaving us in her care. And we were GREAT with Grandma, she could control us easily with a few words or looks. One of these times she took all of us (and my Grandfather) to a local buffet place for dinner. The parents were shocked when they heard afterwards, but we were very well behaved and we had a great time.
My grandmother and two of my cousins were killed in a car accident back in 1993, so the weekend gatherings stopped. But last year just prior to Thanksgiving, the cousins put out a call to all of us to get together, just like old times, and we all gathered at a house and had a grand old party, just the 11 of us, kinda like old times.